The “ Fem” - this guy only dates masculine men. Either way, you’re not their dream guy, that’s for sure - so don’t get caught up. It might be to keep him occupied from an ex he’s trying to get over or just simply to have sex. But by any chance, if a miracle decides to happen and you find yourself in the company of this particular guy, best believe he’s using you for something. So if you don’t have any money, don’t even bother breathing in their direction - you won’t have a chance. He dates based off of who owns the latest clothing, car, shoe, etc. He’s into the latest trends and everywhere he goes he’s wearing something name brand. The “ Fashionista” - this is the guy that’s all about fashion, obviously. If only you knew the things we dealt with as gay men, you would say to yourself, “Who in their right mind would ‘choose’ such a life?” Let me explain to you the top five different types of gay men that exists in society.
That’s one of the reasons why I don’t understand how some people would think that being gay is a choice. The gay scene is nothing like the life heterosexuals live. Growing up as a gay male, you encounter a lot of different men.
